ex is doing better than me

? I'll take any advice anyone is willing to give me, but I guess the real reason I'm posting is because I just wanted to let off some steam. It is simply your perception that s/he is doing better than you and not reality. When your ex is looking way finer than he or she did when you were together, it can torture your soul. Self-harms. As she went on telling me about the stunts she pulled, I laughed and laughed. I voiced how i felt and only then did she go all out in ending contact (im all for exes being friends but this was just unhealthy for both of them, she'd be crying after every contact) she said she would've done it anyway but it felt like sh wouldnt have. You see their social media. Been couple of months now and i've kind of fb stalked him. They had a serious relationship and its just, I'm honestly nothing, just feel like i cant compete, cant support her like he did, can't really do anything like he did, Bro, don't be insecure, you have to have confidence in yourself. Last edited by fivespot; 12-10-2008 at 12:04 AM. I'm sure though her 'crazy' ways will soon come out with her new partner and he will discover this for himself surely she can't hide them all her life from him, I actually laughed reading your headline. I think you need someone more faithful. 5. My annoying, mentally unstable and crazy ex who was very clingy and lied about things to make herself look better seems to have turned out better than me and it is hard to not be resentful. We become depressed, anxious, and despondent when we feel like our best job/relationship/life situation is … Your ex is doing better than you because they have moved on. He has the looks, personality, body and he's had plenty of articles written about him cause he's literally at the top of his game. I had a rough year last year. I guess i felt like she wanted him back in a way since they spoke so much during that time. Q: Would you want one of your husband's best buddies who's married to his one of his (my husband's) first ex-girlfriends he slept with and messed around with intimately in your life? And he must not be all that if he is calling her while she has a boyfriend, talking to her for hours and making her feel like crap. Don't beat yourself up about it.. Stop thinking you're not good enough, because to me it sounds like she's not good enough for you if she's doing that to you.. You said it yourself, she is financially successful and has a beautiful husband and a nice house, and you’re broke and living in your mom’s house. You may feel as if the you have been abandoned, but many times from her side it could be the opposite. The marriage broke up because of the way he treated ME not the other way around . Approaching the ex back process in that way is doing thing backwards. What changes each has made since breaking up. 8) Your mutual acquaintances are asking a few too many questions about the breakup for it to be a coincidence (someone pass me my tinfoil hat). He looks like a god and i guess i just feel... really shitty. Just keeping it real, This is the way life is for some people. It may be uncomfortable, but you're just going to have to figure out a way to be OK with this because you don't have a right to tell your husband to ditch his best friend. Do women notice the difference when a guy is a half inch to a whole inch shorter than other partners? I know it’s easy to obsess over the narcissist and what they’re up to now. 12-10-2008, 12:01 AM #2. It might be true that your ex believes that her new guy is better than you, but it could also be true that she is only saying that to get a reaction out of you. (And there IS a God!!). Someone is only better because of who is doing the comparing and what it is being compared to. I moved to the other side of the world, broke up with my boyfriend of seven years, subsequently found out he’d been cheating on me for five of those, got blind drunk, a lot, went on bad dates, and had meaningless sex that sometimes left me with bruises. Trump becomes an interloper in Palm Beach, Biden's 'Amazon tax' could make things complicated, Biden's granddaughters turn heads at inauguration, Hoops team cancels season after coach accused of abuse, New dad Josh Hartnett: Why I dropped off the radar, New Time cover depicts chaos Biden must address, GOP Rep: Give stimulus check to those who get vaccine, Mickelson denies lobbying Trump on gambler's behalf, Official names U.S.'s most significant strategic threat, Teigen: 'Incredible' to be at Biden's inauguration, Biden needs to account for lost jobs at Keystone XL. Believe me, trauma bonding is no easy thing to overcome. ! meet me at the like round 10 come throughhhhhh? Whether or not one (or both of … To be clear, I dont miss her or care about her, it just sucks that someone of her caliber has turned out better than me, like karma does not exist. I do vaguely remember that sex was better - that feeling of being fulled so completely. . Like im not being one sided im being objective, he is just a billion times better looking and better in every way. If you find her playbook isn't morally right, you can stop using it at any point. If it makes you feel better, ... "Unless your [partner] is a serial fiancée, you can interpret a proposal as a sign that you mean more to them than an ex." So my gf and me are both 19 been together for 10 months. I would move out I suppose.................. Well, why not take notes on what she did to improve herself, how she became successful, maybe she went back to school and improved herself financially by doing so. A: No. I can't compete especially since after trying to contact my gf, she didn't really stop answering him even tho it would end up with her sad and angry every single time. Better than fine, actually — he’s doing amazing. new sketches drop every tuesday on the bigg jah app. It was wrong of her to keep in touch with her ex. During this time, take some time out for yourself and focus on your hobbies and projects. Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. should i play it safe and stay with my husband who has always been a stable aspect of my life or go for the man whom i have more in common? The more extreme his emotional reaction to your breakup, whether it’s love, hate, or … Remember that missing him and feeling a little lonely now is better than sticking in a dead-end relationship, because you're free to meet the right guy, … ’ s easy to obsess over the Narcissist ( stop Obsessing! ) ex treated me not other! 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